The Missing Man Table

This Page Last Updated 29 March 2005

Every U.S. Navy galley has a Missing Man Table. At many formal military functions, a very moving ceremony is performed. While the script below is read, an Honor Guard slowly and ceremoniously sets up the table as described. At the end of the function, the table is ceremoniously removed by the Honor Guard.

THE MISSING MAN TABLE CEREMONY

As you enter the dining area, you may have noticed a table at the front, raised to call your attention to its purpose -- it is reserved to honor our missing loved ones (or missing comrades in arms, for veterans).

THIS TABLE IS SET FOR SIX

The empty places represent Americans still (our men) missing from each of the five services - Army, Navy, Marine Corps, Air Force, Coast Guard - and civilians. This Honor Ceremony symbolizes that they are with us, here in spirit.

THE TABLE CLOTH IS WHITE

Symbolizing the purity of their motives when answering the call to duty.

THE WINE GLASS IS TURNED OVER

To symbolize their inability to share this evening's (morning/day's toast).

THE SALT ON THE PLATE

Is all that's left of the tears when we were informed they will never join us again in conversation.

THE LEMON

Symbolizes the bitterness felt in our hearts at the loss of their friendship.

YOU MAY BE ASKING NOW ...

WHO ARE THESE PEOPLE?

THEY ARE OUR FELLOW SAILORS, FRIENDS, SHIPMATES.

Every sailor in this room has probably lost such a friend in war or the routine of ship's life.

YOUTH ON EARTH WILL PREVAIL

Someone new will accept the hat and the challenge that goes with being "A SAILOR."